first time in my life I connected a uC to my PC, and after a few mistakes it worked!
i was able to send data from mega48 over max3232pe to my pc!
but it doesn't work in the other direction!
signal comes on pin 13, but no change on pin 12!
there is just one thing: my caps are 2u around instead of 0.1 and 0.47 (minimum)! Can they be to big?